A Nigerian man identified as FindingKan has sparked massive reactions on social media after expressing frustration over the difficulty of finding a genuine life partner.
In a heartfelt post on X (formerly Twitter), the young man reflected on how dating and marriage are “two different hustles,” praying that his next relationship would be his last.
He wrote:
“I honestly didn’t realize how difficult it is to find your own person until now that I’m looking forward to getting married.
Bro!!! Finding someone to just date and finding someone to marry are two different hustles.
I honestly want to make my next relationship my last because I actually don taya.”
His post resonated with many users, who flooded the comments with personal experiences and heartbreak stories.
A user, Japheto, shared, “The last one I tried to be expressive and communicative, I paid for it.”
Another, Olamide, wrote, “I really thought she was going to be the last, then she left. Now I’m just tired.”
Others echoed similar sentiments, with many lamenting the challenges of trust, compatibility, and emotional maturity in modern dating.
The post has since gone viral, sparking a broader conversation about love, expectations, and the emotional toll of today’s relationship culture.
chai u will still see