A young Nigerian lady has set social media abuzz after advising women to stop assuming they are in relationships with men who have not clearly defined their intentions.
In her now-viral post, she emphasized that consistent communication, daily phone calls, or even sleeping off on video calls do not automatically make a relationship official.
According to her, a man must verbally express his feelings and define the relationship before it can be considered serious. She cautioned women against mistaking affection or attention for commitment, insisting that “until a man says it, you are still single.”
She added that many women fall into emotional confusion by assuming love where none has been declared, urging them to demand clarity instead of guessing.
Her statement has since stirred massive reactions online. Some social media users agreed that communication defines modern relationships, while others argued that actions often speak louder than words.
One user commented, “She just spoke the bitter truth — no words, no relationship,” while another joked, “Make he use billboard post am so nobody go miss the message.”
The debate continues as many Nigerians weigh in on whether commitment should be defined by words or actions in today’s dating culture.
