Former Big Brother Naija star and media personality, Natasha Akide, popularly known as Tacha, has stirred massive conversations online with her latest relationship advice.
Speaking on the Outside the Box podcast, Tacha urged young women not to put all their emotions and energy into just one man while dating.
According to her, spreading attention across multiple options helps prevent heartbreak and disappointment.
The reality star, who revealed she pays £5K (₦10.3M) monthly as rent in the UK, explained further:
“I tell girls, don’t be out there dating just one man. And I’m still saying it outrightly, you need three other boyfriends in your life.”
Clarifying her stance, she emphasized that her advice was not about promoting promiscuity but about women keeping multiple “talking stages” as a form of emotional balance and self-protection.
Her remarks have since sparked intense debate online, with many applauding her honesty while others criticized the advice as controversial.
“I am not saying sleep with all the boyfriends, but at least let it be that there are other people you are talking to, because even that person you’re talking to, they say the heart of man is wicked, so you never really know,” she added.
Her advice has since sparked a wave of reactions from many condemning her for promoting promiscuity, while others backed the reality star.
An X user, @el_obisesan wrote, “She knows she’s no longer in her prime and that most men won’t take her seriously. That’s why she’s trying as hard as she can to recruit women to share her misf0rtune.”
@Amy_beke added, “Hmm, I can’t date more than one man. Talking stage can be more than one but once i start dating it’s just 1.”
Watch the video below …
“Don’t be out there dating just one man. You need 3 other boyfriends in your life.”
– Tacha pic.twitter.com/Iz49xFKaJ1
— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) August 30, 2025
