In a message of wisdom that resonates with the ongoing public marital tensions between actress Regina Daniels and her husband, Senator Ned Nwoko, renowned development consultant, Dr. Joe Abah, has issued crucial advice to men navigating relationship breakdowns.
Taking to his official X (formerly Twitter) handle, the former Director-General of the Bureau of Public Service Reforms emphasized the paramount importance of dignity and self-control when conflicts arise with a woman who has borne one’s children.
In his post, Dr. Abah, who often uses the traditional title “Ezemmuo” (meaning “The Great Man”), wrote with authority: “When you fall out with a woman that has had children for you, you must do everything possible not to destroy her, no matter how angry you are.”
He further counseled that restraint is not a sign of weakness but a mark of strength, stating, “You must restrain yourself for the sake of your children, and for your own dignity as a man and a father. I am Ezemmuo. I know things.”
The post sparked significant engagement online, with users offering mixed but largely supportive reactions. Many echoed the sentiment that leadership and sacrifice are essential for the well-being of the children, while others acknowledged the complexity of such situations, noting that responsibility lies with both parties.
