A viral video circulating on social media has sparked heated debate after a Nigerian lady advised women to marry men who have an “I don’t care” attitude, claiming such men guarantee peace of mind in marriage.
The video, shared on X (formerly Twitter), shows the lady insisting that women looking for happiness should consider men who “no too get sense.”
Her Reasoning
According to her, men with this carefree attitude are the best partners because they avoid unnecessary drama and dislike stress.
She explained that such men would:
Return from work, see the house scattered, but simply head to bed without quarrelling. Walk into the kitchen to prepare food if none is available, rather than complain.
She warned women to avoid men who always want to win every argument, stressing that such men can never bring lasting peace or happiness in marriage.
Public Reactions
The controversial opinion immediately drew widespread reactions online.
King Eze criticised her view, saying:
“‘I don’t care men’ also find it easy to cheat, get drunk, beat their wives, and disappear from home. True love is disciplinary love that corrects, trains, and strengthens you.”
Next Door Engr wrote:
“This is advice from frustration. Any woman who wants a man that doesn’t care is preparing for heartbreak.”
Tuff Seed added:
“Some women marry only money, later discover the man has no home training. That’s when they realize peace of mind no dey.”
Osazee cautioned:
“Some girls will take this advice seriously until their ‘I don’t care husband’ starts another family elsewhere.”
Another user, Human, argued:
“Peace of mind is for men, not women. Women should build and maintain the home. This generation just wants to rewrite history.”
The debate has since continued to trend, with many questioning whether a man’s carefree attitude truly leads to peace in marriage.
