A lady has shared her story of how she decided against marrying her fiancé after he declined to provide her with ₦500,000 for her business. In a viral video, she explained that while her business had initially thrived, she needed additional funds to expand.
Feeling hesitant to ask her parents or friends for help, she turned to her fiancé for financial assistance. However, his response took her by surprise. She disclosed that her initial capital was ₦3 million, but to purchase necessary equipment worth ₦4 million, she needed the ₦500,000.
When she made the request, her fiancé stated he would only provide the money after their wedding. The lady expressed doubt about his promise, noting that he had never offered any financial support for her business during their courtship.
She justified her decision to end the engagement by stating that if he had not supported her business before marriage, it was unlikely he would do so afterward, believing he would feel secure once they were married.
The video has sparked a wave of reactions online, with netizens sharing mixed opinions on the situation. Some supported her decision, while others criticized her approach.
Finest Dove @fficial wrote: “Lol.. at least your parents are happy that they gave birth to someone who knows when to leave a man that cannot support her business.
“It’s a win win situation for the two of you. The man is safe because you did not dupe him and refuse marriage, you are safe because you found another mumu..”
New Dawn wrote: “‘You did not want to ask your parents’. But you wanted to ask an innocent man. Any sensible single man will flee from you without seeking advice from nobody. Go and marry your sugar daddy that finally gave you the money.”
AlibabaMedia wrote: “That’s tough… marriage is partnership, but trust is built before the vows. If he couldn’t see value in supporting her dreams early on, well she’s right to hesitated.”
DeeVoidElder wrote: “If he promised to help after marriage, then he wasn’t being stingy, just cautious. Ending the engagement because he asked her to wait shows impatience. Marriage is built on trust, not instant gratification.”
Sages_son wrote: “Women will say they don’t need men and they beg men for everything they know they can’t achieve on their own. Everyday they show us how worthless they are to society.”
Watch the video in the link below…
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