A young Nigerian lady has stirred heated discussions on social media after advising women not to date men they previously rejected, especially those who persistently asked them out before being given a chance later on.
In a viral video shared by @moe on X (formerly Twitter), the lady explained that such men often return with emotional baggage and may seek revenge rather than genuine love.
According to her, “When a man comes back even after you’ve rejected him and flaunted other men in his face, and you finally accept him, he’s coming back to take revenge and pay you back.”
Her statement has sparked mixed reactions online. While some agreed with her viewpoint, calling it “pure truth,” others argued that not all men harbor resentment, insisting that people can move on from rejection.
Supporters of her opinion believe that emotional scars from earlier rejection could influence how some men behave when finally accepted, while critics say the idea promotes distrust and bitterness in relationships.
Moe’s message appears to be a cautionary note to women who play hard to get or disregard sincere suitors, reminding them that acceptance after public rejection might not always lead to a fairytale ending.
Her video continues to trend, prompting broader conversations about ego, forgiveness, and emotional maturity in modern relationships.
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