In a surprising and introspective turn, the controversial social media personality, Bobrisky, has shared a profound personal lesson concerning relationships, happiness, and the dangers of social media exposure.
Taking to his Instagram page, the cross-dresser reflected on what he described as a truth learned through difficult experience, stating, “One thing I learnt the hard way as an ex-Nigerian is never to bring what makes me happy on social media.”
He elaborated that publicly flaunting wealth, romantic relationships, or personal joy often attracts a wave of envy, harsh judgment, and unwanted interference. He specifically highlighted the challenges within the Nigerian social context, where many are grappling with their own struggles.
Bobrisky strongly emphasized that some forms of happiness are inherently private and that sharing them with the public can jeopardize both relationships and personal peace. “Let the relationship be between you and him only. Nigerians will make sure it scatters and laugh at you if they see your happiness,” he added candidly.
His advice was to shield romantic partnerships from unnecessary public scrutiny to protect their sanctity. Furthermore, his self-reference as an “ex-Nigerian” underscores his perspective on societal pressures, suggesting he has mentally distanced himself from what he perceives as culturally ingrained toxic behaviors like envy and schadenfreude.
